i kinda sat next to my ex boyfriend at the theaters. i was just with a whole bunch of friends and he told me to sit by him so i did. my bf didnt come with me that day. so my ex is a flirt and i am too so we were playfully talkin and flritin. then my friends go and tell my bf that i was all over my ex. i dont blame them because they are friends with both of us. he broke up with me. i dont have a problem with that either. not that i am not sad but i was gonna break up with him anyways cuz it wasnt workin. i never cheated on him i just was talkin to my ex. we were sittin close but i didnt have intentions like that. my NOw ex that just recently broke up with me is so crushed now. he doesnt want to be just friends either cuz he says he cant trust anybody who can do that to him. he tryin to turn others on me too. did i do anything? is he over reacting? how do i get to be friends again? cuz he is a fun person to be around. how can he forgive me for w hatever i did?
Reply from Tena: Just tell him the situation that was going on at the movies, cause you some friends like to over exaggerate and stretch the truth to make it sound bad..Go to him and ask him to tell you everything that your friends had told him. Maybe there were some lies in that??!!??
Reply from Tena: well if he does want to hear what u have to say, and if you know that your telling the truth and he still don't want to hear, then you guys shouldn't be together..sorry :(
i like this guy ALOT and he likes me back but he keeps breakin up and gettin back together with his girlfriend. i just dont know what to do.
Reply from Tena: You shouldn't like a guy who has a girlfriend. It doesn't matter if its a off and on relationship between them two. Don't interfere. When they have OFFICALLY broken up, then thats your chance to shine..
Unavailable guy. Need help?
I like this guy a lot and i know that he likes me back. I was surprised when he never asked me out. Like he had his arm around me in the movie theater and holding hands and stuff but he never said anything about it. And i never asked him out but maybe I should have. Then now it is two weeks later. I never saw him last week cuz I was grounded so I couldnt go to the mall. I talked to him over myspace a few times since then and all seemed fine. Then yesterday I messaged him and he read it and never wrote back. And this mornin I found out that he is back together with his on again off again girlfriend and idk how long they have been together but he is plastering i love you all over his myspace. I really want to get with him but now he has his girlfriend. and now that i think about it, i kinda broke up with my boyfriend for him. i really need to atleast have a friend relationship with him. he goes to the mall with our group of friends every once in a while and we flirt but now it wont go anywhere and i dont think i can wait until they break up. i have moved on before, but then i just always come back to liking him again. and by the way. he has asked me out before. and i said yes but i didnt really know him then. so we broke it off a day later. kinda acward but its good between us now. and i am pretty sure he wont break up for me.we dont really talk over the phone. just an added detail.
Reply from Tena: Wow that is alot of details. Its good that you two are friends. My advice is to start back talking to him(as friends). And whenever you guys' group goes out, make sure you hold conversations then. Ask about his girlfriend to, maybe you know her??!!! And yes your right about 1 thing, never wait on a relationship to end cause that just a desperate move and you don't wanna seem desperate. Just try to move on with your life girl. I know u really like him, but don't focus your life around 1 boy..:)
i'm from the previous submission. and it has been like a week and i cant stop thinking about him. and i cant keep liiving like this. i'm crushing hard
Reply from Tena: Ok, first off, tell the guy how you feel, so you can make sure that he knows that. I know that he knows that you like him and all, but he probably doesn't know that your REALLY SERIOUS about him. I know you'll feel embarassed about doing it, but you'll feel a whole lot better if you go ahead and tell him!! :)
