how to ease out of a relationship? i said yes but now i am kinda regretting it. it's only been 4 days but he really likes me and say stuff like i miss u and i love you and that he wishes he was with me. i just dont know if i feel the same. plus i barly see him . i really dont want to do it face to face. this sucks . he already is asking to stay at my house overnight and stuff. this is all new to me cuz i have not had a real bf . and never had a real break up.
Reply from Tena: A guy should never say "I love you" and he's only known you for like 4 days, unless its love at 1st sight, but i don't believe in that!!...It's kinda hard 2 get out of a relationship if your other half has already told all of their true emotions 2 you theres just no way!!... Umm how can we do this.....he is a little bit to clingy, does he call you 24/7?? If he does, yea he most definitly clingy..Just ride it out for a couple of more days and if things don't seem to get better come back to me and i'll see what we can do about this situation..
ok. i have never had my first kiss . not even a peck. last time i was with my boyfriend he tried to kiss me but i pulled away. i got really nevous. i know for a fact that this is not his first kiss. kisses are not really a big deal for him. he asked me why i wouldnt and i didnt know what to say. please help
Reply from Tena: Your just shy and timid about these types of issues. Its alright, like you said you never had your first kiss so it is going to be a little awkward. Just tell him the situation and how your feeling about this..he'll understand. After all, It is your first kiss!! :)
i did it . i kissed him. it wasnt as ackward as i thought it would be . and he's just so cute :) im really happy . thanks for your advice .
Reply from Tena: good job girlie.. And your welcome. I am always going to be here!!
my best friend ever is so mad at me and she wont tell me why. she says it has to be face to face and one of our other friends has to be there too. she completely removed me from her top friends on myspace and i dont know why at all. i was talking to her on the phone and she said that she wont say anything till then. i have no clue at all. what should i do. the next time we will be face to face with our other friend is next saturday. that is a whole week that this is gonna to be locked up inside. she is just gonna get more mad. i dont know what to say or do.
Reply from Tena: Wow!! well first off, don't get stressed. That is the last thing to do. Spend the week trying to figure out why she is mad at you, think back the days b4 you found out she was mad at you, and figure out what the deal is. Hopefully it isn't something HUGE!!
Thanks for your advice. All i can think that i did since the last time i saw her and the time that she got mad was sleep, and sit around the house and get on myspace. the only other reason why she could be mad would have to be something about my bf maybe? it is her ex but she said she is fine with it and actually wanted me to be with him. at least that is what i think. maybe there are rumors going around. idk?
Reply from Tena: Well maybe that is it, maybe she is a little bit jealous cause maybe her ex is treating you better than what he did to her (if that makes any sense :P). just ask her if it has anything to do with her ex and you dating. She probably won't just come out and say it, but from my point of view i think that is the issue with you guys. It always is with best friends when they date each others boyfriends. DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA!!!
how do i get to see my bf more often? i go to high school and he is in middle. i can't go over to his house cuz our parents dont know we are dating and we aren't that old. 14 so .... idk?
Reply from Tena: well first go and tell your parents that you are dating each other. You shouldn't hide a relationship from your parents that just gonna make the situation worse. And for seeing you bf more often. Talk to him, um check your schedule and see if you two have to some time 2 take off and spend time together :)
what should i do? i wanna break up with my boy friend cuz i just dont feel the same way about him anymore. but he still feels the same about me. and even he admitted that it isnt workin out . i never get to see him plus i have been likin this other guy. i dont wanna be like a hoe and just plain out dump him for the other guy but i know this is gonna end really soon. i just want to get it over with it but i feel really bad but i need to do this fast. (his b-day is in two days) and i want to do it before his birthday and deff not ON his birthday. is this even a good enough reason to break up? how do i do it? by the way. we have been dating for a month and a half .
Reply from Tena: I have been in this same situation. Thats why I haven't been on here in a while. I just needed time for myself, and i apologize for leaving you guys. But for what i have experienced these past couple of days, wait a couple of days and see what happens on. You say that his birthday is in 2 days??, well maybe you two will find some common ground then, but don't break up with him just because you like another guy or another guy like you. Have a better reason, just don't break his heart over a silly situation. Yall have been dating for almost 2 months, well not be get in the wrong, but if u guys are already getting bored with each other and its just been a month and a half, then something is wrong there.
